So what I was dreading finally happened, my friend and my crush finally got together. But as it turns out it is not that bad, I don't feel resentful or sad in fact I'm quite happy. I have realized I didn't like him at all. I was just fascinated with him and that fascination got over as soon as I talked with him for some time. He is just as boring as everyone else.
And on the top of that I'm really happy for her, I never knew I was such a good friend. See she had lived in Delhi for a very long time so as to cope up with the beasts there (yes that what they deserved to be called) she got into this shell, became something she was not. But with him she feels she is returning back to her old self. And she just seems so happy, I can't just simply resent her happiness and frankly I'm not that damaged(I still have faith in humanity), in fact I'm not damaged at all. My thick skin has protected me pretty well from the activities of these beasts. I feel people are capable of change and they deserve a chance to bring about that change in themselves. But to bring about a change in these beast which roam about disguised as men we just need to give them a taste of their medicine. We as women need to stop ignoring these beasts' cat calls and other activities and need to take action. If the government does not support us and give us what we need we must snatch it. If the society wants us to live with are wings clipped we need to break free of the shackles and answer are true calling, i.e. -FLYING. And if we see that some other women find it difficult to break free from the shackles we must support her. Female Solidarity is the only solution to stop this violence against women .
So to restore other people's faith in humanity and mankind and in men general we need more good people, more people or rather men like my former crush.
And on the top of that I'm really happy for her, I never knew I was such a good friend. See she had lived in Delhi for a very long time so as to cope up with the beasts there (yes that what they deserved to be called) she got into this shell, became something she was not. But with him she feels she is returning back to her old self. And she just seems so happy, I can't just simply resent her happiness and frankly I'm not that damaged(I still have faith in humanity), in fact I'm not damaged at all. My thick skin has protected me pretty well from the activities of these beasts. I feel people are capable of change and they deserve a chance to bring about that change in themselves. But to bring about a change in these beast which roam about disguised as men we just need to give them a taste of their medicine. We as women need to stop ignoring these beasts' cat calls and other activities and need to take action. If the government does not support us and give us what we need we must snatch it. If the society wants us to live with are wings clipped we need to break free of the shackles and answer are true calling, i.e. -FLYING. And if we see that some other women find it difficult to break free from the shackles we must support her. Female Solidarity is the only solution to stop this violence against women .
So to restore other people's faith in humanity and mankind and in men general we need more good people, more people or rather men like my former crush.
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